As a second-gen Asian immigrant, guilt is deeply woven into the tapestry of my culture and identity. I was raised to prioritise my family's wishes over my own desires, leading to a lack of self-assertion or a strong sense of self. Each day, I work to unlearn my self-doubting tendencies as I continue to build my own confidence. I know where my talents and passions lie, and although diverging from the conventional career path has been terribly frightening, as Toss says, “if you aren’t scared, it’s not a big enough move.” This was a much needed reminder that I am on the right path to reaching my purpose, even though it feels uncomfortable at times. It was exactly what I needed to hear during this conflicting period of my life as I decide what I want to do for my future. In other words, I’m in my chaotic-creating-the-life-of-my-dreams era. She’s getting there.

Additionally, Christine demonstrated that anxieties can be harnessed as superpowers. Her openness about her struggles revealed that these emotions, often denounced as weaknesses, can actually become transformative tools driving personal and professional growth. I used to loathe and deny my anxiety, constantly trying to push it away. However, over the past few years, I have adopted this very perspective, learning to recognise what I perceived as my weaknesses, as strengths. My social anxiety, for instance, has made me more observant, empathetic and a better listener – qualities I’ve been praised for in the past. This shift in thinking has been profoundly comforting, allowing me to see things in a new light.

Interestingly, numerous studies reveal that individuals with anxiety often develop strong professional habits. Over time, these habits – such as meticulous attention to detail, heightened empathy and improved listening skills – become ingrained, leading to consistently good-quality work. These studies show that while anxiety can be challenging, it can also drive individuals to maintain high standards and thoroughness in their tasks.